Quick update here on the blog. I’m sure by now you’ve all heard of both the NYC Dating Conference in Manhattan and the Hollywood PUA Summit going on this month. I’ll be speaking at both events, and as usual, will be presenting never-seen-before content. None of this “recycle the same speech for 2 years straight” stuff. Sure it’s easier as a speaker, but it’s also disappointing to show up to see someone speak and then you realize it’s the exact same stuff you heard last year.

This year I’m also going to throw in some cool bonuses for guys who are on the fence. This is your opportunity to not only see me speak along with dozens of other top-rated instructors, but to get hooked up with free coaching! Starting this weekend, I’ll be speaking at the NYC Dating Super Conference and then I’ll be heading back to Hollywood for the annual PUA Summit the weekend of Sept 24th.

So here’s the deal:

The next 3 people who sign up for either event get a FREE half hour sticking point strategy session ($100 value) with me LIVE! (Just use the contact form on my website after signing up.)

Sign up here:
NYC: 2011 Dating Conference
Hollywood: PUA Summit 2011 or PUA Summit 2011 VIP Ticket

And for those of you who are looking for infield coaching, it gets even better. For the next 2 people who sign up for discounted infield coaching with me during either event, I will BUY you a ticket to attend the conference for FREE!

Remember, this is only good for the next few sign ups so do NOT procrastinate on this or you’ll miss out. NO EXCEPTIONS. (Every year the stragglers ask and every year the answer is no).

Note: This post contains Comp/Aff Links

The event hosts also presented me with the “best fundamentals” award which was pretty cool, despite it looking like a Mystery-VH1-Medallion. All in all, a great event.

This coming week is the second (and ironically, original) Superconference, the 2010 Dating Conference. Not sure why organizers would pick a domain name that has to be changed every year, but perhaps there’s a method to the madness. In either case, the lineup looks very strong, with speakers including Adam Lyons (who hopefully doesn’t make me look bad as he speaks after me ), BradP, Vin diCarlo, Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks, Entropy, Magic, and others.

If you missed last week’s conference, or if you just want to double up on the massive amount of value being presented at these events, sign up today. Use Code “djfuji2010″ for an additional $15 discount and a free 30-minute LIVE coaching session at the actual event!

I’ll also be offering infield training after the event on Friday and Saturday nights. Price is normally $600/night but event organizers have asked me to discount that so you’ll be able to go infield for nearly a 20% discount! There will only be 3 spots available per night on a first-come, first-serve basis, so make sure you don’t procrastinate on this. Email me to sign up today!

Quick reminder for those of you not on my email list that I’ll be speaking back-to-back at two giant New York City conferences next month. I’ll be speaking alongside some of the biggest names in the industry (Ross Jeffries, BradP, Love Systems, etc.) over three days each weekend and may offer discounted infield training while I’m in the city. If you live on the East Coast, you don’t want to miss this.

NYC Global Pickup Conference

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The first is New York City’s Global Pickup Conference. Run by the head of probably the biggest lair in NYC, this star-studded event looks pretty badass. Speakers include David Wygant, Vin DiCarlo, Ross Jeffries, El Topo, BradP, and of course your favorite mohawked Asian. The most interesting thing about this event is that it comes with 1 day of infield training included (which I’ll be participating in teaching) and a TON of free goodies. It’s really the first time I’ve ever seen a superconference-type event offer that. Infield training is the gold standard in the development process so this is definitely something you want to take advantage of. It’s a first-year event but I would be highly surprised if this didn’t take off for many years to come. Dates are May 28 – May 31.

Prices are super low for what they’re offering but they’re going up as we get closer to the event, so don’t hold off on this. I’ve arranged with the organizer to get you guys a special deal when you sign up. You’ll get a $15 discount off the already dirt-cheap price and a free 30-minute 1-on-1 video coaching session with me.

Dating Conference 2010

Oddly enough, I’ll ALSO be speaking at another NYC event, and it’s a week later, on June 4-6. Also a first year event, The Dating Conference 2010 also features some big, big names, many of which will speak at both events. But instead of Ross Jeffries, you have Adam Lyons. Instead of Dr. Paul, you have Magic (Side note: If you’re an indian guy reading this and thinking that Indian guys can’t get good at this, you need to meet Magic). There will also be an open bar, lots of goodies and freebies, and perhaps best of all, access to ALL of the video and audio recordings from the event. That means that if you miss a speaker or want to hear his speech again, you will be able to watch it again online and take notes. That’s a HUGE plus, as there’s only so much you can gain from a speech when you only watch it once. There won’t be included infield training, but I will be doing heavily-discounted coaching that weekend that you can take advantage of. The upside to that is that the student-instructor ratios will be lower and thus, you will receive much more individual attention.

Prices for this event are a bit higher but I have also arranged for some cool deals and discounts for you guys. Sign up now using code “djfuji2010″ and get $15 off the ticket price. Then email me and I’ll throw in a free 30-minute 1-on-1 *LIVE coaching session at the actual event! Sign up here

NYC Subway - 3/13/2010. Taken with Panasonic DMC-ZS3 (handheld).

Currently on a 1-on-1 here in NYC but wanted to give you guys a quick update on happenings around here.

I’ll be doing a free seminar/workshop tomorrow (3/14/2010) at 4:30PM in NYC. I guess it’s not technically free because they’re asking for a $14 donation to help cover the costs of the seminar room, but I’m speaking entirely pro-bono (no charge). I’ll also be giving away over $1000 worth of free stuff! If you’re in the NYC area, you won’t want to miss it.

I’ll be covering things like:

• The simple technique you can learn in 10 minutes that will eliminate 90% of flakey phone numbers
• The keys to transitioning your interactions OUT of platonic-friend-zones
• Why the vast majority of guys fail in pickup… and what you can do to avoid being a statistic
• A complete breakdown of kinesthetic communication – how to touch, where to touch, when to touch, and why it’s 10x more important than you think it is
• The 5 mistakes you’re making right now that are preventing you from getting laid
• Tons and TONS more content… you aren’t going to want to miss this. It’s not a ‘lair talk,’ it’s a full-on, 4-hour workshop

More info and signup is on the NYC Lair website. Click here for more details.

I’ll also be posting dates and info on my Spring 2010 boot camp schedule (including two major NYC SuperConferences, 21 Convention Info, and Intensive Immersion Course info) in the next few days so watch for that.

Hey guys, quick update…

A Hollywood producer is working with me on a documentary about the seduction community and is looking for new students who are willing to be filmed on camera. In addition to what could be overnight celebrity status, you’ll also receive thousands of dollars worth of discounted and free training. You’ll have to be located in the greater LA area but this is a fantastic opportunity for anyone who’s been wanting to get good at this but just doesn’t have access to the cash to pay for top-notch training.

Note that you do NOT have to have any experience with pickup. In fact, the producer is actually looking for newer guys to be a part of this.

I know what some of you guys are thinking. “I’d love to do this but oh crap I don’t want to be potentially seen on nationwide movie screens as some newbie who can’t get laid.”

I know you’re thinking this because I thought the exact same thing when I was about to do the Dr. Phil show several years ago. I almost didn’t do it. But I decided to take the shot because I had recently adopted a new life philosophy, and that was that if I was ever on the fence about a particular situation, I’d always err on the side of action.

It was something I had learned from a Carlos Xuma interview a long time ago, and I still live it to this day. It was the philosophy that propelled a 30-day solo North and South American tour even while knowing that I didn’t speak a lick of Spanish. It was the philosophy that got me to break off from the old company and start my own company. And it’s the philosophy that I live every day of my life because it enables me to live knowing that I’m minimizing the one emotion I never want to feel:

…Regret.

I never want to feel that “shoulda woulda coulda” feeling again. I’d rather try and fail than never to have tried at all.

In the end, my Dr. Phil show aired to a nationwide audience, showing not only me, but my wing Kamouflage as well. It showed us as newbies, perhaps the worst thing imaginable considering we were both coaching at the time. And that’s in addition to any family or personal life fiascoes that could have happened.

But guess what?

That episode came and went and nobody cared. In fact, Kamo’s friends (who were not aware of his community involvement) called him from the gym, excited that one of their buddies was famous! All of our fears and anxieties and insecurities about being shown negatively (and if you saw the episode, you know just how negative it was) were figments of our imagination. In the real world, they never happened.

So imagine the kind of regret I’d feel if I never did it because I was afraid. I can live with a little embarrassment, or shame, or even humiliation (even though it never came). But I cannot live with regret. Especially regret due to fear.

Carpe Diem, gents. Seize the day.

3/22/2010 Update: Spots have been filled for the documentary. Thanks to everyone who auditioned.

In case you didn’t recognize the charmingly handsome fellow in the video, that’s me. What you’re watching is a ‘teaser’ trailer to the documentary that’s being produced by Dream, the organizer of the esteemed 21 Convention superconference event which I spoke at (and about) last year in 2009. In case you missed the free, 2 hour lecture from my 2009 speech, check it out.

Of particular note is that today is the last day you can get discounted tickets to the event, so if you’ve been procrastinating on this, now yesterday would be a great time to be proactive.

In fact, I highly recommend the live event in Orlando as not only do you get 4 days of awesome lectures from key players in this field, but El Topo and I (along with some of the other instructors) always do additional free training events afterward. Some guys even take students out into the field for free! That’s worth the cost of admission by itself.

At the end of the day, though, if taking care of this part of your life isn’t worth the couple of hundred bucks that you might otherwise spend on eating out and Starbucks, then you simply don’t want it bad enough. The desire must be there or no amount of training will help. If you truly want to get better, then take these opportunities. You’re selling yourself short if you hesitate and let them pass you by.

For those of you who ARE committed to this, sign up now and I’ll throw in a free 30-minute 1-on-1 phone coaching session! That’s worth almost $100 just by itself. Email me if you have questions or if you’ve signed up and are ready to schedule your coaching call.

I also want to say thanks to all the guys who have enrolled in my 1-day immersion course last weekend and this coming weekend. I honestly did not expect to get that kind of response, but that’s good because it means you guys are dedicated and it means that I’ll definitely be doing these types of events in the future. Stay tuned for more info on future boot camps and training events. I’m currently planning New York, San Francisco, and Austin, TX. I may also be heading to Toronto again this summer along with another 30-day Americas Tour in the fall.

It’s gonna be a busy year, gents. Time to stop thinking about things and start DOING.

I’m currently in Germany for a student’s wedding. I had coached this guy a few years back on a 1-on-1 and he ended up SNLing during the training… and it eventually turned into a marriage. He’s from Germany so he flew me out here for the wedding to say ‘thank you.’ Very cool guy.

Germany is awesome despite the $35/day extortion fees to get on the internet. And the fact that I have to lie to everyone at the wedding as to how I know the groom. I’m just glad I don’t drive here. My friend went to the gas station earlier and it cost him around $90 to fill the tank on a BMW 5-series. And that’s with paying the cheaper diesel prices. Still over double what we’d pay here in the states.

But I love the culture here. There’s cobblestone streets, statues and museums everywhere, and everyone seems to speak 3 languages, especially since i’m practically sitting on the border of France. Too bad English isn’t one of those languages. Girls are pretty hot, too. I’ll post pictures later.

I’ll be here for a couple of weeks so I’m thinking of doing some training in either Cologne or London next week. I’ll have limited availability for 1:1′s and possibly a boot camp as well. Shoot me an email using the contact form if you’re interested.

“Core” Workshop & Boot Camp

What: Intensive seminar and workshop designed to give you the core fundamentals necessary for success with women. Optional Infield Portion.

When & Where:

• Los Angeles, CA:
  June 5-7, 2009
• San Diego, CA:
  June 19-21, 2009

Who: Beginner-Intermediate Skill Levels (less than 2,500 total approaches)

Schedule:

• Fri: 5pm – 10pm; Infield: 10p-2a
• Sat: 12p – 7p; Infield: 10p-2a
• Sun: 12p – 6p

What You’ll Learn:

• How to begin conversations with women anywhere, anytime
• Overcoming approach anxiety
• How to stop faking it and start making it
• Using high energy game without coming off “gay”
• The key things in the first 5 seconds that will make or break the interaction
• Handling groups and male obstacles
• The fundamentals of consciously-created attraction
• The difference between real and illusory attraction… and when to use both
• Getting her to chase you
• Forming a strong emotional connection with her
• The secret to eliminating 99% of flakey phone numbers
• Handling logistics
• Getting day2s/dates
• The seduction
• Lots, LOTS more…

Cost:

• Seminar: $749
• Infield Option: $600 per night or $1000 for both

Private (1-on-1) Training

• 8+ hours of individual, live training (including infield)
• $1400/day

Phone Coaching

• Individual Sticking Point Analysis
• Customized Routine Stacks
• Creating Stories from Your Life
• Custom Vulnerability and Grounding Sequences
• Role Playing-based Drills and Analysis
• $125/hr