this is just my own personal opinion im not here to challenge any ones views just wanted to share.

She admires our wisdom.
She is intrigued by our vibrant and artistic culture.
Above all, she wants your little cock!!!!

Chances are, you have a bright future ahead of you. Technically speaking, our survival and replication value is pretty high.

All you need to do, is work on captivating the right side of her brain, and work on your interpersonal skills.

So what are you waiting for lads?

‘rationality leads to a conclusion, emotion leads to action’

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Lets say your in a bad mood or you have something against Sascha Cohen, but your friend convinces you to go with him to see his stand up routine.

So you go with him with much hesitancy. When the show begins, and Sascha (or one of his characters Ali G/Borat) takes center stage and starts to perform his comic routine. Because he is so skillful as a comic, there is a good chance that you’ll likely end up in a state of laughter even if you despise him.

As someone studying and developing his pick up skills, you want to sway the girl your gaming from a logical state to an emotional state where she ends up being sexually attracted to you even if she is against short, Asian guys or whatever issues you think she may have against you.

DJ Fuji: I’m definitely interested in your take on you take on the sticking points.

“Dating is really no different than any other skill. And it’s simply that. A skill.”

that sums up the way I feel about the subject too. I am filipino and feel that yes, girls might treat me differently, but at the same time, still find myself having a blast wherever me and my friends go.

Different races have different challenges and thats what makes it really exciting for me.

Great article! Good points. As being Asian, it is what it is. I like the approach of getting over it. Yes Asian men have some challenges than most but they can be overcome.

Thanks for an enlightenment and hope you can add more tips to help Asian men out. Looking forward to hearing more.

FAB

Saying that being Asian is not a big deal is really redundant. That is what Fuji is saying. One quote: ” Let me start off by saying I don’t normally focus much on interracial dating and the whole ‘Asian’ thing because I don’t see it as being that big of a deal.”

If it’s being portrayed as a big deal, Fuji says you can find the culprit for that: “Blame it on the media, or on cultural programming, or evolutionary psychology, or any number of factors…”

This article, seems to me, it’s being judge by things Fuji did NOT express are HIS views. Yet, when some people here write, they tend to forget that; Fuji is writing about them and not adopting those views.

Be optimistic in your conclusions, especially when you are not sure what the intent of the writer is on any given text. In fact, in game, it is the same advice, be optimistic in your reading and calibration of your target. You will find that most of the time what is happening is helping you to get to your goals and is congruent with YOUR intentions.

For the record, the quote at CintraWilson.com was written BY A BLACK WOMAN WHO LIKES ASIAN MEN. (See here: http://www.cintrawilson.com/dregs/2008/06/the_unfuckables.php) And even if it weren’t, that PS was wholly unnecessary.

Oh and I AM proud of my ethnicity and my culture. I’m not saying its perfect, but no culture is. Just because i don’t move back to the ‘mother country’ doesn’t mean i cant be proud of my ethnic background.

A bit about myself. I immigrated to the good ol’ U.S.A. at the age of 15 in the mid-90′s from South Korea with a single mother and a younger brother, and have been living in northern Virginia ever since. Here, I’ve seen enough of Asian-male-white-female relationships in high school and college, all with their peculiarities — the guy always having a higher value than the girl, the girl having Asian fetish, the girl a little retarded, etc., as well as plethora of AMAF relationships, my reality always doubted the myth of the Asian men who can’t get dates.

I’ve been hit by enough white and black girls to doubt it. At first I was taken aback that interracial dating does happen, but I eventually started to not even notice. ‘Just another Asian dude, another blonde.’ Of course, if you go to a 95%+ white population area, it becomes an bizarre oddity; some stare at you even while alone, but add a white girl next to you, people see the unimaginable.

Only one or two Asian guys who couldn’t get dates in high school pop into my mind, but they had zero sex appeal and I thought no woman of any race would date them. Maybe in other parts of the U.S., the statistics is a bit different. My bet is that, as time goes on, the Asian men dating problem will be no more than a sales tool to create attention and controversy. Also, as always, it would be used as an attack tool. Some percentage of men in any race is bound to be unattractive: Big news, ‘who gives a f*ck?’ And yes, when you walk around with an attractive blonde as an Asian man, people do double take, especially the white guys regardless of their age, then they soon accept it as a reality. What choice do they have? It’s there. Heck, even I was not used to the notion: I spent the half of my formative years in a sea of Asians in an Asian country and never seen a single blonde or a black girl until fifteen.

A note of importance: the dating game in an Asian society is pretty much the same as anywhere. The top 5% of the most attractive guys get all the girls and the remaining 95% just stare at the heroic dudes with their mouth open and dry. (It might be different in China, Japan, and the Southest Asia, but I’ve never been to those countries. But I doubt the situation is any different.) Mark this: Even within an Asian society, 95% of the boys and men are considered unattractive by their own women within the same culture, and this phenomenon starts as early as in elementry school, and the girls dream of that fantasy man who can satisfy and fill their every desire and need. (I really can’t say this statistics is any different in any other society: the majority of men really are out of tune with women. Although I would have to admit that I would consider far higher percentage of white, black, and Latino men as more attractive men then the Asian men.)

A retard like William Hung would be considered a douchebag and get beaten in school everyday even in an Asian society – no woman or girl would be even interested in talking to the likes of him. Why do these top 5% get all the girls, and some even manage to lose their virginity before graduating high school in a relatively closed and restrictive society? Well, for one, they don’t give a sh*t. Also, they have some or all of the exact qualities that are considered attractive in a man in the pickup community: leadership, standing up for himself, being dominent, being a protector of loved ones, being a bad boy who make girls cry, taking risks in asking girls out, etc. What does this tell? That 95% of Asian men are considred unattractive at home and abroad? As a male species, the Asian men, as a collective group, have failed. Of course, none of us in this generation caused the past failures and shortcomings ourselves, but we, the Asian men in the Western civilizaiton, have all inherited it in our genes, the Western meme, and the world history. If you fail to get women, either Asian or another race, in your life, then you’ve failed as a man; you didn’t fail just because you’re an Asian. If you’re undateble as a man and clueless about women, whatever your race is, you’ll fail to get a woman of any race.

Of course, Asian men have it hard; they have been trying to fit into an civilization built by other people, the West, who have drastically different temprement, views on life, values, attitudes, and history. There of course are tremendous amount of value and prejucides attached to races. A white woman takes a tremendous risk of lowering her value in dating outside of her race, especially an Asian man due to the perceived and real lower values in the Asian men: and the good news is, you’re the one who should and can lead and help her to overcome those gravities. The Asian failures that started with the Japanese and the Chinese two hundred years ago have continued with all of Asia ever since: A follower who has been conqured and wants to fit in is never attractive. I’m sick and tired of hearing an Asian saying “I’m proud of my ethnicity and culture.” If there were anything to be proud of, none of us would be in a Western society – but it would’ve been the other way around. You have no idea what kind of sh*t had been going on in the Asian countries for millenia. Even the language is inferior. Let’s call a spade a spade.

The only choice we have now is to make a difference and refuse to repeat the past failures and shortcomings.

The Asian men, both dead and alive, created their own reality. It’s nobody’s fault but their own. So, man up, and do something about it. Your parents and ancestors have failed, but it doesn’t mean you have to too. Take a chance on your life, and do something remarkable with it. The laws of value, the sexual attraction dynamics, and the game of power are universal: every man, Asian or not, with an ounce of self-respect should learn — if not master – them. Every man has the responsiblity and duty to make his own life a success. Learn from those living Asian and non-Asian dating masters who already had successes before you, and master the skills yourself. Don’t sit back and do nothing.

Every Asian male of this generation have the inborn responsiblity of reprogramming the image of Asian men in the West and the world, and create a new reality. Do it now with your life: You would be giving your offsprings and posterity that your parents and ancestors failed to give you, and you do have that precious opportunity in your hands right now, today. And once it’s gone, the chances will never come back.

Overcome your obsticles today, or live a failure for the rest of your life and consequently dump those failures to your offsprings and your people: your choice.

Live in the future successes, not in the past failures.

“Every adversity, every failure and every heartache carries with it the Seed of an equivalent or a greater Benefit.” — Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

(If you don’t see the truth in this, then you’re really f’ed. Just p*ss in your pants, and don’t even try. Ever wonder why no Asian ever left a stuff as great as that line and book to the humanity? Doesn’t that upset you that you belong to the inadequate people, that you’re one of them? Because they didn’t take the action – they didn’t take the risk of being ridiculed, and when they took a risk, they were oppressed and persecuted by their own people and others saying that no Asian should amount to such a great thing: The expectation became a reality for generations. If you don’t take an action today and do something different, the failure will remain forever. Why shouldn’t it be you who break the vicious cycle? Why shouldn’t YOU be the hero of your own life in your own world? Even God can’t give you a justified reason to that. Take up the highest mantle of responsibility: The well-being of your own life and your people. You have far bigger things at stake than your own life alone.)

P.S.

“and I don’t know who Cintra Wilson is, but if you even notice a f*ed-up attention-wh*re c*nt like her, you’re as much the same p*ssy as her. Who is this c*nt bashing Asian men? I checked out her website, and I think she’s ugly and unattractive, but ordinarily I wouldn’t even mention that because that would be a f*ing waste of my time. From my experience, there are plenty of ugly blondes, and she’s defintely one of them. She can triple-X throwdown my yellow d*ck.”

Also, the interracial dating involving the Asian man is not that new in Hollywood. It can be traced back as early as in the early 20th century, a hundred years ago, starting with the Japanese. Of course, they were never depicted as an ideal man. Why anybody would do such a service? They simply weren’t ideal. Those relationships always failed. But differences can, are being made, and will be made today and tomorrow. Join the force.