Everyone thinks Black Friday weekend (and the accompanying holiday season) is great for deals.
What they don’t realize is that it’s even better if you’re learning how to improve your dating life.
Dating is a skill like anything else. And if you want to succeed at it, it’s a skill that you must be either born with or that you must learn. This holiday season, go out but don’t bother actually shopping unless you really need to buy something. Instead, go out and approach women.
There are droves of women shopping this weekend and very few of them will be approached because all of the men are at electronics stores or at home playing xbox one (spoiler: Call of Duty Ghosts sucked).
When it comes to dating, there’s something that pros understand that amateurs rarely get:
It’s that WHEN you do something and HOW you do it is much more important than WHAT you do.
I’m going to give you two key strategies here that will change the way you look at the holiday season. And if you stick around, I’m going to offer a rare bonus to a few of you as well.
Don’t bother with Black Friday shopping unless you like huge crowds of soccer Moms who fighting over the last ipads. And avoid best buy, the apple store, or any electronics store for that matter. Best bet? Department stores, Sephora, and high end malls that have boutiques or clothing stores which carry >$500 shoes. Go between 12p-6p this saturday or sunday. After this weekend, malls start staying open REALLY late. Take advantage of this. If you like professional women, go between 4p-11p and dress sharp. If you like college-aged, go earlier or on weekends and be prepared to approach groups versus women by themselves. In both scenarios, make sure you smile, dress well, smell good, and know where the nearest Starbucks is (because you’re going to ask her to grab a cup of coffee with you if things go well).
Open Direct (“I saw you and thought you’re absolutely adorable.”)
Don’t bother with indirect, or situational, or any of the gimmicky stuff unless you’re already super good at direct (at which point you probably wouldn’t be reading this email). Direct improves your confidence, builds attraction, and develops your social skills. It’s terrifying to do for the first time, but try it out. It’s not nearly as bad as it seems.
I have a ton more tips to share but I don’t want you to get bogged down in theory and consequently not approach.
The holidays are in full swing right now and that means that you have one of the best times of the year to practice and improve your skills when it comes to dating.
And for those of you who’ve made it this far, I also have a free “Black Friday” bonus for you.
Over the next week or so, I’ll be giving away free half-hour phone coaching sessions to a select few of you. These sessions normally retail for $125 and allow us to sit down 1-on-1 so that I can evaluate your sticking points and give you advice on how to skyrocket your progress. I have a limited number of spots available so don’t miss out. Once they’re gone, you’re out of luck.
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